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13 Ways to Damage Relationships
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Kare Anderson
Kare Anderson is a public speaker and Emmy-winning TV commentator and Wall Street Journal reporter. She is the author of Getting What You Want, Resolving Conflict Sooner, Beauty Inside Out and Walk Your Talk:  Grow Your Business Faster Through Successful Cross-Promotional Partnerships.  Her free "Say It Better" ezine now reaches 32,000 people in 24 countries. As David Rockefeller Jr. said after hearing Kare speak, "She will forever change how you see yourself and your world." Visit www.sayitbetter.com for more.  
By Kare Anderson
Published on 03/18/2010
 
When things go wrong, we tend to blind ourselves to other’s feelings. We are more likely to fall into a destructive behavioral trap. Sadly, when we do, we cannot be empathic. We weaken that human bond that’s vital to re-grouping and resilience. These blinding mindsets make us feel dumb, powerless … and alone. (Of course you don’t make any of these mistakes yet someone you know might, so it may be worth reading on.)